What should we learn
as parents to protect our kids from the Social problems
Pressures
and demands of today’s society have made the task of rising up the children are
more difficult for parents and sometimes for children. Before we talk about nowadays
social issues that could affect the children’s life, let us talk about the
common nature habits that our children have- which is “The child is watching”.
I was really concern about raising my kids in a healthy environment, but when I
saw my kids affected directly and strongly to what is happening in our family
and affected to the relation between parents- I really got scared. I felt that
they are watching everything; they are watching me even when I am sitting in
front the T.V. I surprised from my older daughter that she is talking the same way
I do- with little bit nervous. I saw her react angrily toward simple issues, I
saw her sometimes talk with negative attitude with her sister. “Oh, my God!”. I
decided to concentrate and change rapidly before it’s too late, and working on
this in order to meet the greet expectations about a woman in their life. So, I
am asking is there any academy that could teach us as parents how to be a
professional parents and teacher to our precious kids?.
What an interesting question, Bassant. Can we ever become professional parents? Is there only on way to be a parent? Like teaching, sometimes we parent the way we were parented. But like teaching, we can expose our ways to new ways of thinking about parenting.
ReplyDeleteI believe Bassant that the academy you are looking for is inside everyone of us .We can search , read , ask for advice,learn from others even learn from our kids about the way we should raise them if we really welling to be good and professionals parents. I agree with you tht our kids are simply a minor photocopy from us and this what makes it hard because we have to be aware about what we say and do infront of them.I beleibve i been raised once but still me daughter raising me too.Bieng a parent is something you may not choose but being a good one is definitly your call
ReplyDeleteDear Bassant,
ReplyDeleteHere you are , this is a link to a very interesting website that delivers classes for parents.It's really nice , my friends used to learn some stuff from it that helped them in their parenting journey.
http://positiveparenting.com/BePositive/
Best of luck with your kids, dear
Hi Bassant,
ReplyDeleteI always believe in the proverb that says "what you sow you reap". Our children are our harvest. most of the children consider their parents as role models, so we must pay attention to what we say, behave or do.
Dear Bassant
ReplyDeleteWhat a question. I am a mother of three girls myself. Of course I have the same concern as you do. My Eldest daughter is 15 now and I noticed from a long time that she is a minor version of me. Of course there are differences because she is a digital native while I am a digital immigrant but still every thing I do she and her sisters are affected by it. This really terrifies me. I believe that motherhood and of course fatherhood are the greatest responsibility that we are facing. I believe we should read about bringing up our children before we even get married.But it is never too late my dear. We should ask older people,read and search for information to help us accomplish this great beautiful mission.
Wish you and your family all the best